i had the same from people when i bought my xbox. people seem to hate it. but i find it fun and relaxing. i use to drink but now dont drink 4/5 months a year. i play the xbox instead to unwhind. i only paly 1/2 to a hour at a time. not every day. i didn't expect that! its fun!Seriously when I opened this thread and read the OP I literally cursed out loud. You open a thread moaning about how none of the marriages you know are patriarchal enough for your tastes and than post this nonsense which would only barely acceptable for teenaged boy. What age are you and you an XBox and yet claim to be some upright nationalist type, and even if I a remember correctly a Christian? And you think it is acceptable for an adult male to waste hours at time on hypnotic infantilism? No woman worth her salt would marry trash who play with Xboxs as an adult, and particularly not one who was looking for a "truly traditional" patriarch. This is the problem with men such as yourself- you want all honours of patriarchy but none of the duties. You have not even bothered to take on the duty of fully embracing adulthood.